Do you struggle with making decisions wondering what the best option is? When a choice needs to be made, you immediately shut down, going into fear thinking whatever you choose will be the wrong one.
You try to balance everyone else's needs, desires and wishes without even considering your own and how it will effect your daily life.
Terrified of making a mistake, doubting your ability to follow your intuition or trust yourself you seek out advice and approval from everyone else, ultimately giving your power away. On top of that you endlessly analyzing every possible outcome until you are beyond confused.
Society has taught us not to trust ourselves, to second guess our intuition and that no matter what, you must stick with the choice you made.
One choice can alter your reality. Saying yes to a potential partner, quitting your job, choosing a different path, moving across the country along with every minor choice has the potential to alter your life.
The key is to discover the power in your choice.
Are you making your choice based in fear or are you making your choice based on expansion?
When you are deciding from fear, you become limited. You become anxious over the future and worry about how it will affect not only you, but everyone around you. (Their needs and desires are put above your own.) Your body creates tension, becomes sore and painful and exhausted. You think about all the possible negative outcomes, and emotional upheaval takes over, leading you to hide underneath the covers and give up responsibility of making the choice.
The moment you step into choosing from a place of expansion and how it will serve you is the moment you are able to trust your experience.
You suddenly step into a sacred space where you are able to create your life from a conscious place. You open up, you follow your intuition, and synchronicity appears. You experience more freedom, more joy, more ease and more clarity, allowing doors to be opened for you.
Here are a few simple journal exercises to understand the power of choice and how it works for you.
1) List of all the choices you've made that added value to your life. How did you come to that decision? What did you feel? What was your experience? Go into detail.
2) List the choices you've made based in fear. How did you come to that decision? What were you afraid of? What was your experience? Go into detail.
3) Create a timeline. Feel into and journal about what your life will look like if you make "this" choice in 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years.
If you are struggling with making choices and desire more support contact Crystal today to discuss how The Soul Therapist Awakening Sessions can help you. The Awakening Sessions bring you to an awareness of where you have created limitations based on past conditioning. This awakening is life-changing and will impact any current situations that have been holding you back from experiencing your truth, choices, and life direction of what is best for you.
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